20 Questions to Get Better Donor Relationships and Be a Better Leader
Updated:
September 2, 2025

Updated:
June 2, 2026
How to be a better leader, AND get better donor relationships?
It’s all about the questions.
When you ask good questions, they can take your relationship from a handshake to a hug. And incredible questions can take your $50 donor to a $5,000 donor.
Mazarine’s magical list of questions to help you get the deeper donor relationships you crave:
- Tell me about how you grew up. What are some of your first memories?
- Who had a deep impact on you personally or professionally?
- Who is one of your heroes, and why?
- You’re here for a reason. Would you mind telling me how you first got started with our cause?
- How do you like to be involved with nonprofits?
- What makes a nonprofit trustworthy in your eyes?
- Do you feel in the loop about what’s really going on at our nonprofit?
- What’s a song you habitually hear us sing?
- What do you wish more people knew about you?
- Is there a question you wish people would ask you?
- What are some of your hopes for our world right now?
But good questions aren’t just for donors.
Mazarine’s magical list of questions to help you develop better staff rapport:
- Where would you really like to be in 5 years, and how would you like help in getting there?
- What’s one situation you had in a previous job that you’re worried will happen in this job?
- What are your favorite tasks at work?
- What are the tasks you’d rather not do?
- When you communicate with me, what’s your favorite method?
- What do you think are some good metrics for your job?
- What could I do better as a leader?
- Do you ever see me saying one thing but doing another?
- What can I do to build trust with you?





